just fucking let shit flow. don't try to fucking perfect everything or plan every goddamn thing out. just let shit roll how it fucking wants to. that's destiny; the one thing you'll never have control of no matter how hard you try. it's always out of reach. so how about you sip your damn coffee and breathe a little, maybe enjoy the moment as it's happening. don't regret the shit you do because guess fucking what you can't change that shit. it's in the past and it's what will help you grow as a fucking human being. don't get so caught up in the outcomes of everything you do, get caught up in the fucking moment.